Fellatio: It is relaxing for your partner if he lies down but you can also kneel in front of him as he stands or sits in a chair. As you perform fellatio you can also caress the rest of his body, intensifying the excitement. First kiss and lick his penis, holding the shaft in your hand. Use your tongue to explore the shaft, running it around the ridge where it meets the head and rub it against the frenulum. If you feel ready you can take his penis into your mouth, and slowly move your mouth up and down the shaft.If he moves hips, try to accompany this movement. To control the amount of your partner's penis you take in your mouth wrap your fist around the base of his penis. If stimulation of the penis continues your partner will eventually approach orgasm. If you don't want him to ejaculate in your mouth tell him so that you can withdraw your mouth and continue to bring him to climax with your hand or switch to intercourse. Throughout fellatio your fingers can gently stroke other areas of his body and genitals to add to his pleasure.
If you are performing fellatio:
vary your activities - from tongue stroking to kissing to actual sucking of the penis in your mouth do not blow down a man's penis. It can cause infection do not bite, and try to keep your teeth from touching his penis do not swallow semen if you don't want to. Tell him to take his penis out just before he ejaculates if you don't mind your partner climaxing in your mouth but don't want to swallow, keep a box of tissues nearby and dispose of the liquid as soon as you can
If you are receiving fellatio:
don't thrust too deeply into your partner's mouth if they want to take a break don't urge or insist that they go on regardless don't pressure your lover to let you ejaculate in their mouth and if your partner agrees that you can come in the mouth, don't pressure them to swallow